Yesterday, for the first time in my life, someone asked me, “What are your preferred pronouns?” I was sitting outside a Starbucks with my girlfriend, chatting about types of hot peppers, when one of her mom-friends walked out of the Starbucks with another mom, their two toddlers in tow. “LT!” Read more…
I got a one-star review yesterday for Reverie. It’s the first time in four lesfic titles I’ve gotten one. And before I go any further, I just want to say: I don’t mind. It’s okay and I’m not upset. I wrote recently about how I believe that art isn’t static Read more…
A commenter on my blog mentioned her review over at Goodreads.com of To Have Loved & Lost, and, since I almost never visit Goodreads and therefore have very little notion of how my books are doing on that site, I decided maybe I should swing by and see what was Read more…
I wrote a post on the first day of 2018 reviewing my 2017. In it, I said that 2017 was the year that I finally realized I have to live my life for myself first and foremost, and that statement struck a discordant note in me then and still does Read more…
One day, I might explain in greater detail why 2017 was both one of the hardest years and one of the best years in my life… so far. For now, I will say… It was the year I had my mid-life crisis, of that there is no doubt, the crisis Read more…
One of the reasons we get anxious and overwhelmed is because we feel like so much hinges on any given decision. Guess what? It doesn’t. The truth of the matter is, we are each very tiny beings on a very tiny rock floating in space. Although our decisions might be Read more…
It’s not yet eight o’clock in the morning as I write this, and so far, my day has gotten off to a completely ordinary start. I woke up a little after six, read for a few minutes, stumbled into the kitchen to start my coffee, did some basic exercises while Read more…
Greetings from the Denver airport, where I’ve been sitting at the terminal on my laptop, working on some odds & ends as I await my flight to sunny San Diego. What I’ve been working on that you might be interested in: Setting up the details for a massive group lesfic Read more…
If you haven’t watched it yet, you need to see it. You need to educate yourself by getting inside the mindset of the white supremacists who would have us believe that their tribe is going to save this country. Look, I don’t like the news, either, but sometimes we need Read more…
While visiting my lovely girlfriend in California (and how it came to pass that I’m living on the East Coast with a girlfriend on the West is another story entirely, one you wouldn’t believe if I told you), I lost my sunscreening privileges after badly burning myself on a trip Read more…